Motivation

Motivation. Everyone is talking about motivation. My coaches were constantly trying to motivate us to work harder, play better and win more. Bosses are attempting to motivate their workers to produce more and better goods. Parents stay awake at night thinking of ways to motivate their children to do better in school. Motivation is a big deal.

There are thousands of articles written each year, and many more talks and speeches made with the express intent to motivate us. Frankly, very few of them have much impact. And most of those that succeed produce rather short term results. Like most people, I can be motived but usually for a very short span of time. Motivation wanes if it is not produced from within. We are only motived by things that really matter to us; things we really care about.

The things that motivate us; the things that drive us to do what we need to do are called our Core Values. At the church I serve we are in the process of writing our Mission Statement, our Vision Statement and our Core Values. Many people like to believe these things are not important and it is a waste of time to work on them. A more factual statement is; these things are important and foundational and they are difficult to think about. Whether we write them down or not; whether we articulate them or not; we have a mission and core values and these are the things that drive us.

Our mission is our calling in life. As a believer in God, I have a God given mission that I am living my life for and spending my time and resources in fulfilling. My vision is how I go about getting my mission accomplished. My vision gives my mission voice and hands and feet to get the job done. And my core values are the energy that empowers me to fulfill my mission. No mission – nothing happens. No vision – nothing happens. Wrong values – nothing happens. The church must have all three and faithfully be guided by them or the church will wander in the wilderness and eventually die. Scripture powerfully says it like this: “Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.” (Proverbs 29:18 (KJV) The New International Version says it like this: “Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint; but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom’s instruction.” Either way, it is a bad idea to try to do church well without a clear mission, vision and values. It is universally true that churches that are not motived by a God given vision are in the process of dying. We like to blame our demise on many factors but it all comes back to lack of vision.

Again, many churches have these statements. Unfortunately most of these mission and vision statements are safely filed away in a cabinet in an office somewhere on the premises or posted on a wall in the church library but consistently ignored when it comes to making the decisions that impact the ministries, mission and the future of the church. Instead of adhering to these foundational principles, we tend to just head off in whatever direction that seems right and meaningful at the moment. And we will rarely fulfill our mission and follow our vision without first taking a hard look at our values. We must ask, what do we value?

Most churches in our culture fail to move forward; fail to impact our communities; fail to fulfill their missions because the basic core value that empowers the church is summed up in the statement – I want my way. Churches expend most of their resources and energy placating unhappy members; doing what makes the present membership happy; not doing anything, (no matter if it would be something that fits the mission exactly) that might cause any discomfort or upheaval among the present membership. We spend so much time and energy making sure everyone is happy and comfortable we don’t have the resources (time, talents, money, energy) to reach out to those in our sphere of influence who do not yet know Christ. We become inward focused instead of outward focused. We are more concerned with maintaining the present membership than reaching those who don’t know God. We become self-serving. And that is not what God intended us to do and be.

Here is the difficult part of the whole deal. We need to change our core values. We need to find the motivation to change those thoughts, attitudes and ideas (values) that motivate us. Wow, how difficult is that? We must be motivated to change our motivation.

We must begin by owning our current values. This is difficult because our current values, when considered in the context of being a Christian, are often embarrassing. We must admit to being self-center and self-serving and small minded; mired in the muck insisting that having our needs met is of primary importance. But once we can own up to our immature and selfish value system we can begin to dismantle it and rebuild with a Godly value system. My counsel to the church is the same counsel I have given myself. Study the New Testament to discover what values drove Jesus to do what He did and adopt those values. This seems to make sense to me since we are called to be His disciples, follow in His footsteps and to live life as He lived life. New values do not come easily.

This is a basic, foundational change that is extremely difficult to make. It takes courage, concentration and consistent readjusting. It is my prayer we, the church, have that courage and consistency. Because if we don’t, we will surely die.

Copyright © 2013, William T. McConnell, All Rights Reserved

Fuzzy Church

Fuzzy Vision
I can’t see. I didn’t know that until I entered the first grade. When I complained of being unable to see the writing on the board I was whisked off to the eye doctor and fitted for my first pair of glasses. The eye doctor mumbled some odd numbers like 20/200 and kept shaking his head. Soon I was fitted with a great pair of very unattractive glasses. This was back in ancient times before several great innovations in lens technology so I had glasses with rather thick lenses. Kids being kids they immediately dubbed my glasses and me “Coke bottle bottoms.”

Frankly, I didn’t care what they called me. I could see. There I was, six years old, and for the first time in my life I could see the things that other kids had been seeing all along. I discovered that one could see individual blades of grass without having to lie down on the grass. Trees have individual leaves. A baseball thrown to me could be seen before it was just inches away. A whole new world and a whole new way of seeing the world had opened up to me. Call me names, I didn’t care. Life was suddenly bright and clear. I especially loved the clear part. It took a bit of adjusting to but adjust I did and love it I did.

Fuzzy Church
We live in a time when we like to label things and people and ideas and politics and just about everything. We, in the life of the church, like labels too. There are all kinds of “Church” going on out there. There is traditional church, contemporary church, emergent church, progressive church, house church, open and affirming church, life church, simple church, cyber church, and the list could go on and on. I would like to propose one more “type” of church – Fuzzy Church.

Fuzzy Church is what most of our aging, mainline denominational churches seem to be practicing. By Fuzzy Church I mean we are doing church without our glasses on. We can’t see where we are or where we are going. We, the church, lack what I lacked before entering school and visiting the eye doctor – clear vision. We insist on doing church, or are at least willing to do church, without a clear, powerful and empowering vision from God. And without a vision our blurred, fuzzy perceptions are causing us to stumble around, running into problems, arguing with each other about minutia, running after whatever appears in our paths as something cool and trendy to do, attempting to build our churches on what we might consider to be good ideas.

I am not a proponent of Fuzzy Church. Not only do I not want to practice Fuzzy Church, I believe if we keep doing Fuzzy Church, we are going to kill the church. Well over 100 years ago, in what I believe was an amazingly egocentric move, Frederick Nietzsche pronounce God dead. He, of course, didn’t mean that God had really died, but that God had never existed. It is a cheap shot but I will take it by announcing that 100 + years later God is much more alive than Nietzsche.

Since the days of the announcement of the death of God, many people have been writing about and arguing about and worrying about the life and health of the church in North America. For the past several decades those within the church and those who observe the church from a safe distance have opined that the church is on its way out. Many people have joyfully pronounced the church dead. I don’t think the church is dead. Well, I don’t think it is all dead, but it is just mostly dead. (My thanks and apologies to the writers of The Princess Bride.)

The Results of Fuzzy Church
The church in the northern hemisphere, as we have known it for several centuries, is just about dead. That is not an opinion. It is not an accusation. It is not a complaint. It is not a call to arms. It is just an observation. If the statistics being reported to us are accurate, it is an astute observation of the obvious. The church in North America is dying and it is dying rapidly.

I feel badly about that… kinda. First let me address the “I feel bad” part of that statement. I feel bad because I love the church. In general, the church has been good to me and for me. Some of the best (and some of the worst) experiences I have had have been in the church. I believe in the church. I think Jesus founded the church as His vehicle to impact this sadly sick world with His message of love, health and forgiveness. The church, at its best, is an awesome, beautiful thing. But all too often, the church is not at its best. And at its less-than-best the church must be seen as unacceptable.

I feel badly that the church is dying because it is me and people like me who have just about finished it off. It has been under my generation’s leadership that the church has taken a nose dive in attendance, mission, ministry and cultural influence. The church has survived some amazingly toxic assaults, both ecclesiastical and secular, over the centuries. But nothing can measure up to the toxicity of our present North American culture. I am not attempting to fix blame for the state of the church; just making an observation. Without going into a cultural diatribe let me just say that our present culture is a challenging place and time to do church. Personally, I like the challenge. I believe it is in just such a challenging arena that the church can flourish and grow to its fullest potential. That is where my “kinda” came from. Though we, the church, seem to be dying rapidly, I believe we are perfectly positioned to profoundly impact our world.

Get a Clear Vision
This article is not a plea or an apologetic for everyone to do church like I think we should do church. It is a call for us to quit doing church driven by our personal preferences, our political agendas, our perceived needs, or our human frailties. Instead we must start doing church driven by the vision God has given us, you and me, for the church. It is not about trying to meet the needs of the people in our communities (Though that is not a bad idea.), or speaking to the preferences of a specific generational group (But that is not to be ignored.), or pushing a political agenda in the name of justice or righteousness (Though justice and righteousness are great things to pursue.), or putting all of our time, energy and effort in developing programs and events that might grow the church (Again not a bad idea.). Instead we must get a Godly vision.

Quite honestly, I have attempted to “do church” using almost all of the previously mentioned platforms, policies, programs and processes. And in doing those things I have been moderately successful… for a while… sometimes. But the church always seemed to be wandering, feeling its way around, not going anywhere in particular or doing anything with strength and vigor. I have come to believe we were doing fuzzy church.

It is probably pretty common to find it easier to try to do church by searching out new and innovative programs, plugging them into my local church situation and trying to get them to work. Most of us find it to be much more difficult to get a vision and using that vision to drive the church. By vision I do not mean coming up with a good idea. Coming up with a good idea or two is easy. I can come up with a couple of good ideas a week. I am talking about finding a God-given, divinely inspired vision for what God would have your local church be and do. Taking the time and energy to seek God and to listen to what God has to say is difficult. Some, if not most, churches seek God’s vision by having a meeting and inviting everyone to come and have their say. And I am all for people having their say. But the voice I want to hear is God and that voice is usually heard in the quiet of prayer and meditation and in conversations with follow visionaries. To find God’s calling, mission and vision for your church is going to take a deep investment in prayer, study of the scripture and deeply spiritual conversations among the spiritual leaders of the church.

With a clear vision to guide the church, fuzzy church goes away. Discussions are held in the context of the vision. Instead of making decisions based on personal preference or past experiences, decisions begin to be made according to where the vision is directing the church.

• Should our worship service be traditional, blended or contemporary? What is our vision?
• Should we invest in a children’s sports ministry? What is our vision?
• Should we consider remodeling the present structure or should we relocate? What is our vision?
• Should the church develop a small group ministry? What is the vision?
• What kind of staffing should the church add? What is the vision?

Being guided by a God given vision changes how we do church. It changes everything about what we decide and how we decide to move into the church’s future. Vision brings clarity. No more fuzzy church.

Copyright © 2010, William T. McConnell, All Rights Reserved