For the past few weeks I have been watching the
protests. It seems we have groups protesting almost everything. But I am pretty
sure what is happening is the Clinton supporters (In the most recent
Presidential election.) are throwing a collective temper tantrum. They can’t
believe their golden girl lost the election. She had lots of money, a huge
political apparatus grinding out politics as usual in the background, the
Clinton name, millions of ground troops, the support of key influencers, a
decent running mate, a carefully crafted campaign put together by the best of
the best and had the added advantage of running again a fragmented Republican
Party led by, what seemed to be, the village idiot. How could she lose? But she
did.
Frankly I am both saddened and surprised that either
one of them won. I have been observing politics since Eisenhower was President
and those were the two sorriest candidates I have ever seen. They were
different, that’s for sure. But each one was highly un-likable and un-electable
in his and her own unique way. No matter the outcome of the election, the
American people were sure to lose. And we did. The Democrats can’t believe they
lost and the Republicans don’t yet know that they, too, lost.
Please keep in mind that I am a child of the 60’s. My
generation redefined the concept of rebellion and protesting. We took protesting
to new heights (Or depths, depending on how you see things.). We rebelled about
and against almost everything.
I was fortunate (?) to attend college in the 1960’s.
It was a time of huge social and political upheaval and change. While in
college I was privileged to serve on a group that was tasked with inviting
speakers and entertainers to our college campus. With much effort, we convinced
Al Capp, the author of the very popular comic strip, “Li’l Abner,” to spend a
weekend on our campus. In his cartoon strip Mr. Capp did a great job of social
commentary. In response to the seemingly never ending campus unrest he
introduced a student group in his strip: “S.W.I.N.E.”
S.W.I.N.E. was a campus group that rallied and protested
against anything that came to mind. S.W.I.N.E. stood for Students Wildly
Indignant about Nearly Everything. Al Capp was a very funny and engaging man. I
didn’t realize until I, while serving as the President of my university’s SWINE
chapter (We called it Student Government), I interviewed him on the local radio
station where I did political commentary, that he had lost a leg and was in
poor health. He certainly didn’t let those things stand in his way of living a
full and meaningful life and being a very witty guy. I tell you all of that to
let you know that I seem to have a genetic tendency toward rebellion. That
information should give you a context for what I must say.
Those presently protesting everything they can think
of and more remind me of my days as a S.W.I.N.E. I was deadly serious about
everything. Nothing was funny. Everything was wrong. It was up to me to fix it.
I was the only person (Me and my fellow S.W.I.N.E.) intelligent enough to know
what must be done. Anyone who disagreed with me was my intellectual and moral
inferior and should not even be given the opportunity to speak. I was open
minded, but only to people who agreed with me. The others were too wrong to be
given an audience. Whatever they had to say was so wrong it was hate speech. I
was pretty full of myself (And other stuff we won’t mention.) Much like the
protesters of today.
Perhaps if Mr. Capp were alive and writing today he
would name the present protesters A.P.S.T.A.R. – Angry People Sure They Are
Right. It might fit since they seem to think people who think differently than
they are some kind of lower lifeforms. Having been there and done that, I
understand where they are coming from. What I don’t understand is why they are
protesting. I don’t understand their logic. And that may be where I’ve gone
wrong – looking for and expecting logic. Let me give a shot at explaining what
I mean.
Over the past few decades the movers and the shakers
and trend setters have taken a long time trying to convince us that truth is
relative – and they have. That concept is a part of what is called “Post
Modern” thought. As a “Modern”, the best I can tell, to be a postmodern thinker
one must pretty much lose his or her mind. What previously was widely held and
universally understood – common sense – has been lost to the masses. Speaking
for a few of us old folks, we miss it.
My observation is that much Postmodern thought and
conversations are emotion driven and facts are of little consequence. It is a
sticky, gooey, comfortable, feel-good way of dealing with life; especially
social problems. The question of right and wrong never comes up because it is
irrelevant. Right and wrong are a matter of opinion (Unless I don’t approve of
what you are doing.) so they don’t enter the discussion. The most important
factors in any discussion are: Is anyone’s feelings hurt; is anyone
uncomfortable; make sure the wants and needs of the least and the last (And
sometimes the weirdest.) get primary consideration; does the conclusion make me
feel good? In a rush to the emotional response, facts are often overlooked or
ignored.
I am uncomfortable with making decisions based on
emotions. I cannot think of one emotionally driven decision I have ever made
that turned out well. I will confess that I have little respect for emotion
driven people. I believe they strongly tend to make poor decisions. Emotions
are great in their place, but their place is not in the decision-making
process. And if one is going to get all riled up and hitting the streets to
protest, do so because of what the facts tell you, not what your feelings
dictate. Not long ago a friend owned up to being naive as if that were a good
thing. Basically, being naive means you have the capacity for rational thinking
and decision making but have failed to do so. Instead, you have arrived at an
irrational, emotionally driven conclusion. And that is rarely good thing.
For example, hundreds of thousands of protesters hit
the streets to protest because DJT (Again, I am not a fan.) is closing the
boarders and refusing to allow any Muslim immigrants into the country. That
would make me angry, too. If it were true. But it is not. The truth is he is
proposing keeping immigrants from a few countries from coming into the United
States for 90 days while our country’s vetting process is reviewed. While it
sounds like a logical plan to me, I don’t know if that is a good idea or not. I
don’t have enough information to make an informed decision. But I don’t believe
a rational person is going to take to the streets to protest the order. Give it
90 days and see what happens.
The next step for the fact-free group in arguing their
position is to trot out some people who are adversely affected by the decision
to tell their sad tale. We are all emotionally moved by their hurt and
disappointment and immediately fall in line with the fact-free line of thought…
if you make emotionally driven decisions. But again, the truth is (There it is
again, that stinking truth thing.) every decision has positive and negative
effects. A good decision generally has more good than bad effects and outcomes.
Again, one can always find someone or ones adversely impacted by a decision. A good example is the Affordable Care Act. So,
because one can produce someone who is hurt by a decision doesn’t prove the decision
to be wrong. We churchy people do this all the time. A plan is proposed, one
person shares their dissatisfaction and the plan is abandoned.
Lately, we, as a nation, have made it a habit of
rushing to judgements without thinking things through. And once we have arrived
at the wrong place for the wrong reasons, insist on staying there and adamantly
defending our position. And in doing so, we are losing our credibility.
I’m not asking for much. Just stop, listen and think
before doing something.
Copyright © 2017, William T. McConnell,
All Rights Reserved
Bill McConnell is the Interim Minister
at Norwood Christian Church in Cincinnati, Ohio, and is a Church Transformation
consultant and a Christian Leadership Coach. He is a frequent speaker at Church
Transformation events. His latest book on church transformation is DEVELOPING A
SIGNIFICANT CHURCH and is available at Westbow Press. He can be contacted @ bill45053@gmail.com.
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1 comment:
Very good information Bill. I'm in agreement with you, people need to think before acting or opening their mouths.
I myself do not act according to my feelings at that moment. I think it through & look at the whole picture before making a decision to act on something. Sometimes I decide not to do anything regardless of my opinion because of how it may effect others. I also allow others to have their own opinion because I have my own & expect others to allow me to have mine.
I can remember way back when my dad a WWII veteran & my ex street fighter brother-in-law would get into an argument over politics. My brother-in-law would challenge my dad with a physical fight. Dad wouldn't do it because he would have hurt him. Those arguments put a wedge in their relationship because my brother-in-law wouldn't come around for a long time because he felt he was right & everyone else was wrong. Dad never told him to not come around, it was his own decision. It also effected my sister & their children because they couldn't get over to see us. Eventually he did drop them off to visit, & later he started coming around again. All of it could have been avoided if my brother-in-law would have allowed my dad his opinion.
After witnessing these arguments, I decided to try & stay out of conversation about politics because of how others may react. I despise drama & avoid it like the plague. People have hurt my feelings & many a time I didn't confront them. I just take deep breaths & let it out slowly to calm myself & move on. I can't allow others to live in my head rent free.
I refused to get in on most of the political posts on Facebook because I knew it would get my blood boiling & it would make me crazy. I stopped reading all the posts about the election because of how people reacted. I didn't care for either candidate this election. There was nothing either of them or anyone else could say that made me want to vote for either. It's really a shame others can't be more open minded & allow others to have their opinions. They want their opinions to be accepted but can't give it in return.
Thank you for sharing this information, as always you've hit home with me just like your Sunday sermons. I'm going to share this on my timeline as well.hopefully others will learn from your message.
God bless
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